Forgiving

Lately, I have seen and taught how important forgiveness is. As humans, we will not be perfect. We will somehow make mistakes, either big or small, but to love someone is to be able to forgive that person's mistakes and give him/her a chance to improve, to amend that mistakes. The most important thing is to truly forgiving, not just saying ' oh yeah I will give you a chance' but inside your heart you will still remember it and use it in the future to blame him/her back for the mistakes. It is not easy. And the question is have I been able to do so? To forgive someone without remembering it back when one made mistakes again? It is something that I have to ask myself and reflect on the question....