Love and hate

People said love and hate are separated by a very thin line. Once you step through the line, you are in different region. I think it is true. You will not hate someone unless you love the person in the first place. And when you hate someone, you will keep thinking about the person and finally you see them differently and love them. There is an insignificant border between love and hate. Can you sit on the fence between the two, where you love someone, but yet you hate the person?

Education vs. Mr/Mrs Right

One day I was talking to my friend and we were talking about relationship and how the percentage of divorce has been increasing now. We were wondering what are supposed to be done to know who is Mr/Mrs Right for oneself. Suddenly she told me that one of her friend came into a conclusion saying like this "education is not good for love. the higher you go in education level, the more clueless you are about love. You forget to use your heart and you use more brains more often". I might be agreeing to this, except that I have been using my heart before and I thought I found my Mr. Right. However, things didn't go the way I thought it would. I gave everything for him and listened to my heart. At the end, I left with tears everyday because of him. Now I am wondering if I should be listening to my brain, should I?